I've really had enough, it's hard enough trying to move on with 2 kids living alone husband has got another house now. We're getting on for the kids sake. I am friends with his brothers girlfriend we go out and Continue to do so even though we aren't "sister in laws" anymore. As she has never really liked my husband anyway. So we found out that the cafe she works in is the topic of conversation on me and my husband on all aspects of our lives including personal stuff and about our separation. (Someone who goes in there told my husband) its her sister's cafe and her sister has never liked us. My husband's friend has warned us to be careful who we tell things to as we're the topic of conversation every time he goes in. I feel really betrayed and violated that things i have mentioned about my separation in confidence are now spoke about over a full english to complete strangers. I have never been in this cafe (like I said her sister doesn't like us) plus we have recently set up our own food business (before we split up) so a lot of talk is about that too. I don't know what to do now. Confront or cut off?? I said to my husband that he needs to be careful what he says to his brother too because he will be aware of this gossip and obviously doesn't care.