Just wondering whether anyone has been ‘ghosted’ by their spouse? I have, after 13 years and 4 married, he’s blocked me from all means of communication but continues to have contact with my DD (young adult, he’s been in her life since she was little, regards him as dad) to the point where they’re arranging things without me (he’s booked her birthday party but not involved me!). He also told her he was having a legal letter sent to me but not to tell me, which she didn’t as she didn’t want to upset me.
I have been quite overzealous in contacting him when he first left (3.5 months ago) as he left quite abruptly and him leaving has left me in a terrible mental state, and I was desperate for reconciliation and an explanation (still telling me he was working at us/loved me up until he left) but I’ve calmed this down. I’ve been left with the full burden/responsibility of our large house whilst he’s burying his head in the sand at his mums house
I only know of one other person who’s spouse ‘ghosted’ them (and when she divorced him, he regretted it) - it’s actually more hurtful than him telling me he no longer loves me
anyone else had this situation and how did you get through it? Why would someone do that to someone they went to the trouble of marrying and spent every day with for 13 years?