Help please I’m getting a divorce

[Jym]

Hi everyone
I looking for some advice, my ex of 17yrs is going to divorce me. We have two children
3 months ago my H served me with the news he been cheating on me with a Filipino girl for 2 years in that, two years they had 3 breaks never met the girl only by video call .I’m been abuse mentally as I sat in my house with children listening to them making love . H is planning to move to Australia to live with her, married her too . In the meantime the girl got depression and a lot’s of health issues H going to visit her in July so he bought all kind of sex toys you names it, planning a BDSM etc. My problem is we bought a house 2 years ago , we both pay the mortgage I pay less and contribute to foods shopping children clothes. H pays the rest of bills, due to me having a part time job. I’m worry I may lose everything s including my children because. I don’t earn enough money to rehouse myself and my two children . H doing everything in is power and want the authority to believe that have got mental health issues. H call the police on me and accused me of thefts. I may or not have a criminal record , I’m losing sleep over it while I think about my future work. Regarding the divorce H wants a amicably , I said no I want the court to decide and offer to buy H share of the house as H planning to relocate to Australia in two years. Now I’m lost Please I need help and advice .

I Forget to say H was the the only family I had here , I’m miles away from my family and I don’t have any support or help .

Blimey, he’s living in cloud cuckoo land, the Filipino woman who he’s never met, is that right? He’s sending money to her? And thinks he can just go and live in Australia with her, there’s really strict immigration rules to go live in Aus, he prob won’t meet the requirement and she definitely won’t unless of course they are both rich. He sounds an arse and you will be well shot of him. See a solicitor, you can’t stop what he wants to do, but you can make your life easier knowing where you stand. When he comes running back tell him to sod off!

Yes he never met the girl before just on cam video , but spend his money buying her gifts. He even said he will die for her .
Thank you for your reply I appreciate.

No he don’t send her money. The women live with her parents and a 22years son.

What a prat.

I agree with pp that you need to speak to a solicitor asap so you know exactly where you stand. Even if he comes crawling back in July having realised the grass is not greener in Australia, I think you have no choice but to divorce, there's no coming back from this kind of cruelty.

Why are you worried about losing your kids? Life might get tricky for you for a while but no court on this earth is going to grant him custody if he's planning on running off to the other side of the world.