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Shortish second marriage - no kids, different assets

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PiersMoron · 25/04/2023 07:05

Hi there.

I know most divorces take 50/50 as a starting point, but is this likely to be very different for second marriages where there are no children between the divorcing parties; the children from previous marriages are grown up, the marriage has lasted 4 years and there was a difference in assets brought to the marriage?

Partner A already owned the house which partner B moved into to 2 years prior to the marriage. House has around £600k - £650k equity. Partner A is professional, earns around £100k per annum and has large final salary pension. They have paid the mortgage and all bills associated with house - council tax, utilities, insurance etc. also paid for holidays for the couple and home improvements.

Partner B works part time and earns under £15k per annum. Contributed to food bills during co- habitation / marriage, but nothing else. Has around £150k left from a previous marriage settlement in investments, but nothing else in assets. £150k will not be enough to re-house partner B. No pension.
Both now mid 50s.

how is this likely to play out? Partner B’s starting point is that they want partner A to sell their house and give them enough money (£150k) that partner B can buy a small property (around £300k) outright. Also wants a pension sharing order.

However partner A wants both parties to leave with the assets that they entered the marriage with, and will not consider selling their home, nor sharing their pension.

thanks in advance

OP posts:
3luckystars · 25/04/2023 12:39

I think B has a great life of it but we are only hearing one side of the story.

PiersMoron · 25/04/2023 12:41

No I’m neither A or B. Friend of both parties.

OP posts:
MrLbz · 28/04/2023 13:23

There are no fixed rules here. A was indeed very unwise to get married but might get out ok if they are lucky.

An expensive fight in the courts for this one i think.

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 28/04/2023 14:26

PiersMoron · 25/04/2023 10:05

They are in the South of England but not sure location makes a difference?

It’s the choice of Partner B to work part time and they could work more and earn more but prefer to be self employed doing something they love rather than have paid employment.

During the course of the relationship the equity has probably increased by around £150k.

They are poles apart on what they believe is fair. Wouldn’t a court/ judge (if it gets that far) want both parties to have a secure home if there is money available to house both?

Location in terms of Uk can make a massive difference - Scotland has very different set ups for example.

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