So my husband 3 weeks ago told me if felt we were just cohabiting and he loved me but wasn’t in love with me anymore, he cares for me but not romantically. Came quiet sudden to me I had no idea, was waiting for another women to pop up..
but 3 weeks on he’s told me he’s been referred to mental health as his brain doesn’t work right and he always feels he tries to do good but has a devil on his shoulder stiring him wrong.
In these 3 weeks he’s seen our little 2 year old quite a lot and there’s no issues in regards to him still providing while we sort out moving etc but he has moved out and staying on a joint friends sofa.
im just so confused, my first instinct is to support him and help him through whatever it is, I’m so glad he’s gone doctors cos it’s somewhere u never see him and it’s a great step towards tackling his demons (he had a really bad upbringing, doesn’t really have any family) he’s basically pushing everyone away and was very adamant on me keeping his mental health to myself which I respect and course I will.
I just don’t no I’m heart broken my husband doesn’t love me but then I’m concerned about him and want him to be happy.
has anyone been through anything similar? It’s so hard to Wack on a brave face daily!