There is history to this on other threads of mine, but after another row this afternoon I know the man I fell in love with is gone and I need to leave for my own sanity.
I've had legal advice which was that if I move into rented I need to get something in the same league as I would get after the main home is sold. The rents are sky high and I can't afford that. The advice then has been to stay put while the separation progresses. He's turned nasty and I can't see that I can stay and he won't go.
To put it in perspective we jointly own the house, no mortgage. If we sold I could get a nice 3 bed semi with the proceeds. Renting I can get a 2 bed flat. Has anyone else been given the advice that they should rent the same type of property they want after the split?