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Divorce/separation

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Splitting but living together

4 replies

Anonjd3 · 22/03/2023 08:45

Me and partner have decided to end our relationship. We have a mortgage on our house. Bought it last year, 5yr fixed rate. Worth mentioning he will keep the house, he worked and saved hard for it, and splitting is my decision. We have a 6 year old son. Were not in a position for one of us to move out due to finances. I currently work part time as I look after my son. Only doing 12hr a week. Tried looking for more work during school times but nothing available! My question is I'm moving into our third bedroom. Relationship is done. Am I entitled to any benefits in this situation as a home owner? He happy to support me but I really don't want be relying on him during this period so really need some form of income as my wage is only £550 a month. Any advice?

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millymollymoomoo · 22/03/2023 09:00

You need to look to return full time

dk you own the house as joint tenants?

is he buying out your share ?

look to work full time/apply for uc, and apply for cms

you need a longer term plan then camping out in spare bedroom

gogohmm · 22/03/2023 09:39

You need to look for full time work and apply for uc when you move out

LemonTT · 22/03/2023 10:16

You should check your benefit entitlement based on your circumstances. It is possible to claim but you must be completely financially separated. He cannot be subsidising you in any way. This is obviously a situation open to exploitation and checks will be made on your finances. They will expect to see outgoings for living costs. People often get into trouble when they get back together and forget to update their status.

Paperexcelandpens · 22/03/2023 18:37

You'll need to work more. Even on UC I think you're expected to work more than 12 hours a week with a child that age.

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