Ex is sharing his bed with our daughter and his new girlfriend

[damagelina]

Me (34f) and my ex (45m) have a 9 year old daughter, and he has weekend visitations every other week. She just told me that she has slept in dad's bed with him and his girlfriend this last weekend. He has been dating this woman for 2 months. I am extremely upset, I feel like this is hugely inappropriate. I haven't spoken to him about it yet as I am unsure of what to do.

Daughter is already sharing a bed with dad because he is currently living at his mother's in a section of the house where she also has an older male living as a tenant. Our daughter has a bedroom there but feels afraid in her room and wants to stay with dad. I am already uncomfortable with this situation but adding this new woman into their bed is too far. I am losing my mind here.

What should I do? Am I overreacting?

Not sticking up for him but it sounds like she really likes them late night bed movies and I doubt they will last very much longer if she's 9 now. The VERY NEW girlfriend being in the bed is just weird but on the flip I guess I've also been that girlfriend but after much longer time together ( my oh has sen children and sleep can be a nightmare) i don't think she should even be around her at this point tbf. The girlfriend really needs to just not be there until things are further down the rosy garden path. Your ex needs to get a house. I'm assuming none of them are gonna be implemented what about moving dds bed into his room / a futon or something still a bad scenario but hopefully dd feels safe. No creepy bed sharing

Jesus christ I have no idea why this post popped up on trending 🤣🤣 the new gf still around op ?