I just wondered if anyone out there is in the same position as me and if it works!
Husband and I have been together over 15 years and married for 10 & a half. The last 2 & a half years have been tremendously tough with us coping with lots of bereavement, his depression, him leaving his job after 26 years due to medical inefficiency & becoming self employed.
We stopped talking, doing anything together & to cut a long story short, we separated in October & bought 2 separate places. I always told him he’d regret it.
Since then, our relationship has improved no end. He makes more effort to see me/talk to me - usually contact most days, several times a day and we don’t argue anymore. I am at peace living on my own but enjoy hearing from him & having contact. We recently slept together for the first time since June & it was amazing. There was more of a connection than there had been in years and it was equally lovely for him to kiss me goodbye & leave in the morning.
I have started researching living apart together & wonder if this could work for us.
Does anyone else currently do this or have experience of this?