Dh is not in a good place and is struggling with depression but the marriage has been finished for a long time. We've got to the stage where we are both going through life just pretending everything is ok. My eldest dd had a major mental health crisis and for the sake of stability I put everything on hold which was the right thing to do. However I am now in thinking if I don't do something soon I will forever be living with somebody who I don't love and who doesn't love me. I don't hate him and I'm fairly sure he doesn't hate me but there is no love and I have not wish to have sex with. I could probably continue living a fairly sad but ok life staying with him but am wasting my life away? We haven't had sex in over 10'years and whilst initially it annoyed me, now the thought of him touching me feel revulsed.
Any advice or thoughts appreciated.
I have 2 dd's age 17 and 14 and the 17 year old has had serious mental health issues but she really doesn't get on with her dad.
Husband's mental health is not good but i want a future.