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Selling marital home in 6-8 weeks

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Thatgirlcat · 05/01/2023 13:53

Hi guys,

Does anyone have advice/ experience of when you are splitting from your partner and have to sell the co- mortgaged family home very quickly?
I have been married for over 5 years to my husband and we have 2 children aged 5 and 3. I have been unhappy for a few years now, but as of late have decided I can't keep living like this.

I am aware that most likely we will have to sell the home. We have contacted some agents who deal with selling help to buy homes, who have said they deal with private investors who buy new builds. Whole process takes approx. 6-8 weeks to go through. I have not signed the selling agreement yet, as I'm overwhelmed and financially not able to move at the moment. I cannot afford the rent in my area on my salary and I would also have to reschool my 2 kids ( not sure how long this takes also).

I have applied with my local council for council housing, but I'm fully aware of the waiting time and with the current climate don't hold out much hope. It seems my only option at the moment would be to sell the house in approx 8 weeks time, use the money from sale of house to go into private rented, waste all the money on rent and then after a few moths when its all ran out to then hopefully get bumped up the council list before in inevitably evicted.

This is the only feasible option I've come up with, but any input and advice would be greatly appreciated, as I really don't want to have to keep moving my kids from house to house. This whole situation is so stressful and I just want it to be the easiest it can be on my kids.

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LittleOwl153 · 10/01/2023 11:08

Are you part of a nursing union... they might have access to legal advice which might start you off.

If he is pressuring you tell him.once to back off. Then consider reporting to the police for harassment - again your union might be able to help.

Don't sign anything to give him any parental custody or anything else. You will not both be entitled to council housing including the kids so if you already have a housing application in him doing so including the kids will make yours invalid.

You need to talk to some kind of solicitor, especially if you are married. If you are and he has access to other funds it is likely you will be awarded a higher percentage of the current house equity in order to keep your children housed - again something you might throw away by signing this parental agreement he wants.

Tell him to go away and stop pressuring you. That you will do nothing until he does that. Be very careful. Separation is one of the most dangerous times.

In the meantime get yours and your kids passports and birth certificates out if the house and somewhere safe - so that he cannot do anything stupid.

Mix56 · 10/01/2023 11:37

You can start by making an appointment at the CAB

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