My husband and I had the very brief discussion about the state of our relationship. He didn't fight for it or seem surprised by the conclusion being we split up. I said I would move out and rent nearby and then I left the table to have a cry in the bath. He blamed me for most of our unhappiness or rather my unhappiness and said there was no point in trying any more counselling because 'he didn't need it' and what would it change... and that is that. And I think I feel like that's everything that's wrong on our marriage summed up. I am damaged and carrying too much emotional baggage and he doesn't want to unpack or understand any of mine or his own. And now we have to try to coparent for the rest of our lives... how did I get myself into this 💔