Married 18, together 28, two Dc 17&10
He has always been more sexual and kinky than me but this has become more of an issue recently
He feels we don't have enough alone time and we are emotionally disconnected and I agree
He wonders if there is another life for him out there
He said some hurtful things in October and we decided after talking to split but to announce post Xmas for the sake of he kids
Dread telling them as they are lovely children
They are very close to me but not so to him as he is hard to be around
Some days I think if a brighter lighter future without him
I can't see a way past this but dread the financial and emotional impact of everyone
Sorry for the post but I am keeping this inside and it is hard