Please can I have some help. I feel absolutely broken and don’t know what to do. My husband has been addicted to prescribed medication for years and kept promising he would stop. He’s on his second box of 32 neurofen plus in 24 hours . He’s been off work for about 4 weeks now because he can’t function. He has depression and anxiety. For years everything resolves around him getting his medication. He’s emotionally abusive when he runs out of his medication. I have 3 young teenagers. I want him to leave but he keeps shouting he wants his money. I’ve asked him to find a flat to rent while I sort out the divorce and try and buy him out. He’s emotionally abusive to me and the children. They are scared of being alone with him. He threatens to commit suicide. I hate myself for not divorcing him sooner - I don’t think I’ll ever forgive myself for putting my children through this. Can I do anything to get him to leave? Can I remortgage and try and buy him out before the divorce so I can get him his half? When I spoke to the solicitor last year she said that he would probably get 50% but he says he can’t afford child maintenance, can you negotiate to get a higher share and then have no CM? I have already spoken to women’s aid and I’ve tried to call the solicitor but they are slow at calling back.