I am very close to making the decision yo leave my Husband. We have 2 children 8 and 9 and the relationship is controlling and very toxic for the children. We are always 2nd guessing his mood and I'm not sure I can live my life like this.
We are comfortable at the moment but he earns around 20k more than me so I wouldn't be able to get a place straight away.
Does anyone know what happens if I went to live with my Mum for a bit first in terms of house/children?
I would obviously still be responsible for half of the mortgage payments? Also would the kids live with me at my Mums 50% of the time? Worried they will see it as I have left the home and Dad's still there and I haven't got my own home.
Sorry if this doesn't make mush sense, after some opinions or experience of anyone who has left to go to family members instead of to a new home.