How many court orders is to many

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Hi, I’m new here and wondered if anyone has an x partner like mine.

7 court orders in 3 years, I have just received my last two yesterday. 3 child arrangement orders, 3 breach of orders and 1 financial order.

my two latest are another CAO and another breach or order.

when does it ever stop? Why does the court keep allowing x partners to keep harassing you and issuing you with orders?

Who’s breaching the orders?

I think you can ask the court to issue something- vexatious - that an ex is doing this to harass you.

Especially as the DC are older and have more say in their contact with each parent.

This is a strange post.
Why are their 3 breaches of order ?

Financial order - what's wrong with that ? Surely it just sets out who gets what ?

Or do you mean applications for orders - that are then thrown out as not appropriate or failed due to behaviour. ? ie he applies to enforce an order he says you have breached but you hadn't ?

Assuming the accusations of breaches where upheld which the post implies, this is not a case of vexation.

When is it enough? Well the judge will determine that. The reissuing of orders will reflect a reduced level of autonomy for someone until it is gone altogether.

Did you breach the orders? If so, the obvious remedy would be for you to stop breaching court orders so he doesn't have to take you to court to enforce them.

It's normal to get a court order in respect of finances on divorce, so you have no grounds to complain about that.

If you feel your ex is being vexatious, speak to your solicitor, but if it is you breaching the orders, nobody's going to view it as harassment if your ex tries to get them enforced.

I’ve not breached any orders, the 1st 2 breach of orders he cancelled, the latest I’ve not breached at all again, he wants me to pay for a holiday that got cancelled by the storms in feb and he got his solicitor to write demands to me as he had booked the holiday on my day, I said before let’s swap days which he refused, it was only when I put it again to his solicitor he agreed but wants to charge me for her time and now a holiday that got canned. My son also refuses to go to his fathers, he’s just spent two weeks with him and he was sue for another week in summer holidays, on handover I tried to get him to go, spend 45 mins with him but he refused, he’s saying I didn’t present my son for hand over.

I’ve another CAO, he’s insisting my son spend three weeks of summer holidays non stop, my son hates it there, he won’t allow me to talk to him (he got that in an order) my son comes back with stress ticks and tells him he doesn’t want to be there but my X won’t listen. He’s also now wanting another day a week and various other stuff which suits him.

last CAO I requested a bar on orders but they said no.

How old is your DS and will he speak to the safeguarding person at school?

The school are involved, my son is 7.5 (year 3) he knows what he wants, the school have seen him refuse to go to his dads on his pickup days, I get mums calling me saying your son is in a state as he is refusing to go to his dads, the orders prevent me from acting as his previous history on taking out another order comes true.

when will a court see this as harassment and control over me? He can easily afford a solicitor and I can’t, I took out a loan last year to help him get 50/50 custody which he didn’t but I’m burnt out at the thought of court again. 🙁