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Divorce/separation

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I don't want to creep online

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sadiemisery · 05/11/2022 00:00

Out of a pretty awful marriage (kids) where I literally must have turned a blind eye to every possible betrayal, well not turned a blind eye so much as screamed cried and then just carried on...now im finally free but all I can think about is him, what/who he is doing and it's breaking my heart all over. So I know it's pathetic just need a bit of a kick up the backside I suppose...I have literally no social media and just made a tik tok account, spent an hour traumatising myself and have now deleted it and seriously considering how I can block such things on my phone as I clearly have zero self control.

Please help anyway you can, podcast recommendations etc

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Toomanysleepycats · 05/11/2022 11:22

I’m in the process of divorcing and currently giving too much head space to my STBXH.

I am going to try mindfulness, Everytime I notice I’m thinking about him, just push it away and deliberately think about something else more positive.

Dont know if that helps?

BestSelfBlah · 07/11/2022 18:26

Stop giving him your energy.

Every minute you spend thinking for him is a waste of your time. Get mentally tough with yourself and think about yourself. Imagine he's dead if you must, just get in with your life - it's your only one.

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