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Fiancé looked at many profiles on Escort website

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Shannon771 · 23/10/2022 19:34

Hi,
I really need some objective insight and feedback on this situation. I have a fiancé and we share
a home in England. Fiancé (age 54) came back home from visiting his grown son in Canada (where fiancé is from originally). As soon as he got back home I picked up his tablet to look something up and an escort website popped up!
It was for a higher end call girl service (in the town fiancé was visiting son, and also where fiancé visits every few months). I have never seen any of his web history prior to this and we have only been living together for one year when this happened. So I saw that he looked at 18 different profiles of escorts but I didn’t see where he had contacted anyone or anything like that. But he was clearly looking at many profiles! When I asked him about it he was mortified and he said that he had been clearing out his old emails while visiting his son and that some porn emails popped up and also the escort site just popped up and so he looked at it out of curiosity. He said it was a pop up and he only looked but I feel like looking at 18 pages of profiles is quite a bit. He said he had no idea that escorts would ever even be online which I find very hard to believe.
i just don’t know what to think. He had a previous marriage of over 20 years. Any advice?
thanks

OP posts:
Shannon771 · 23/10/2022 20:04

Bump, any advice?

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Potluck22 · 24/10/2022 08:54

Difficult to tell if it was window shopping or something more. However I don’t think that browsing for such things on holiday is the norm (or wouldn’t like to think so) and to me would suggest a bit of intent on his part. You might want to see his call logs on his mobile to see if he made contact.

For me personally this would create a lot of mistrust and over the long term may be hard to handle. It depends though whether you expect someone to be completely faithful or not as every relationship is different. However relationships without trust IMO and 2 people being on the same page are usually unworkable.

Bunnyfuller1 · 24/10/2022 09:03

They don’t pop up and 18 profiles is no accident

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