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STB ex husband parking tickets

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bunnytailbreakfast · 03/10/2022 15:24

I've recently posted on here about my soon to be ex husband. A few months back he upped and left me and our 8 month old twins under a shower of lies (although as many on here had suspected, there was OW involved, more than one OW dating back long before I was pregnant)

Backstory might help as to why he's not shining in glory IMO.

Since leaving he has moved in with his family and I've had to fight to get money from him to support his family whilst I have ended up paying solicitors fees in respect of divorce.

During this time he ended up taking out a car on finance using this address. I attempted to contact the dealership and the finance company to advise he doesn't live here anymore but they weren't interested.

Today a letter came through the door and the envelope was hand written, we share the same initial and surname so I thought it was for me and opened it. It's a parking ticket for DH and his new car. Photos are pretty clear, him and OW out on a date a couple of weeks ago...

It's a private company so it has the usual "pay in 28 days at a reduced rate or the full rate after"

Now I'm pretty annoyed because I've been asking him to update his address with companies/agencies and he hasn't bothered. I have a good mind not to tell him about it and write back to the parking company advising them of his new address (there's an option to do this)

Is this wrong of me? WWYD?

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alotoftutus · 03/10/2022 15:26

That's absolutely what you should do! His bills and admin are not your problem. Pass on his new address and let him get on with it

alotoftutus · 03/10/2022 15:27

Ps I would send it reordered delivery with you keeping a copy or via email so you have a paper trail. If he doesn't pay you don't want it effecting your credit rating etc

bunnytailbreakfast · 03/10/2022 15:43

Thankyou... and yes, brilliant idea re recorded delivery. I wouldn't put it past him to simply ignore it knowing that it'll cause me bother. I've already had virgin media knocking at our door about returning broadband kit which I know nothing about (he paid for virgin media before leaving!)

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Twinkletoes2022 · 17/12/2022 20:19

Hi,
just a little bit of advice:
it is fraud if he doesn’t change his driving licences address, council tax, HMRC, credit card, employers etc.
live just gone thru a brutal divorce, so this is where the advice is from!
also if he is still registered at your address you can be chased for claiming things you aren’t entitled to ( on paper) he can also take out loans and credit cards at you address, as mine did, and leave you responsible for the credit!
Everything I got for mine, after he had left, I would take a photo of it, then send it back to the company readdressed to his mothers house! It soon stopped.
i wish you well x

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