My husband walked out and literally abandoned me and our two year old daughter on 10 June. I’ve spent the past three and half months recovering, coping, trying to figure out what the hell has happened to my life and how to move forward.
he has literally seen my daughter on two occasions for 7 hours in total - is buggering off to Ibiza for a two week holiday tomorrow and doesn’t so much as check in AT ALL to ask how his daughter is.
i thought his no contact and complete freezing out of us would soften after a month or so once emotions calmed down but I’m literally dumbfounded as how he’s just upped and left and seems to not look back at all.
can any separated parents or those going through a divorce tell me I’m not going mad and this this behaviour is just not normal! How can he just shut off from us and most importantly his little girl???
he works in a bar / restaurant so simply
won’t agree to having her on any kind of every other weekend basis and I’m struggling to see how I’m going to ever be able to move on. He expects me to do everything and for him to just dip in and out like a fun uncle on his terms and when suits him. I’m so disgusted.