Hi
Has anyone been advised to instruct a PODE re their pension?
I am the main wage earner with a low 3 figure salary and a defined benefit career average pension scheme. I am likely to have to sacrifice some of that to my STBXH who may be taking on a greater proportion of childcare after the divorce. Or at least that needs to be on the table.
We're very amicable so far and I want to do the right thing. The mediator has suggested that instructing a PODE would be helpful to clarify the situation. But it seems expensive and I'm not sure where to start.