Sick to death

[sarahonss1]

Husband had an affair, I found out, asked for a divorce. We have a 6 year old son. He dragged me right through to a final financial hearing as he didn’t offer me anything at all. I was in the end awarded what was fair

he suddenly has decided he now wants 50/50 shared care, he already has contact of 1-2 nights a week. He’s declined any extra time I have offered over the past 2 years. He’s now taken me to court then in the hearing had changes his mind, I think what he is actually trying to do is change the current arrangement into days and nights which would suit him not our son because of his social life (not work etc)

I’m absolutely sick to death and he’s also now with the woman he had an affair with

i feel so sorry for our son and I feel like I’m just so mentally had enough of all of this

I’m so sorry to hear this.

im just starting a separation but my dc are grown up and moved away, so I can offer no advice.

All I know is that although we have enough money to separate, and my husband will have more than me, he still says it’s not enough for HIM. Male entitlement is staggering!

Maybe open his eyes to what 50 /50 would entail. ..
Would he take to school /after school /appointments /parties?

Thankyou for replying ladies ❤️

I think he hasn’t got a clue what’s entailed in equal shared care his mum and dad heavily assist with the current arrangement! I feel like I’m just teetering round the edge of not being able to cope with everything at the moment of trying to be a mum, going through this awful court process and just feel like I’m heading for a burnout