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Fiancé cheated

6 replies

unk1234 · 13/04/2022 19:07

My now ex has cheated on me multiple times in the 9 years we were together, I fell pregnant in 2020 (unplanned) but he knew I was against abortions unless it was medically needed.
He told me I was to get an abortion but I didn't, I told him he didn't need to stay if he didn't want to but he did and came to terms with having baby
Until recently he cheated again first time since son was born and told me he cheated because I didn't get an abortion, and thinks I should get back as we are now even😳
Like I told him end of the day it was my body my choice and I didn't ask you to stay, and he doesn't think he's in the wrong here

OP posts:
FeckTheMagicDragon · 13/04/2022 19:09

Why are you still with him? He is using your baby as an excuse. He cheat for one reason, and one train only. He wanted to fuck someone else. Get rid.

FeckTheMagicDragon · 13/04/2022 19:10

Train=Reason
Do you want this as an example to your child on how women should be treated?

Neverreturntoathread · 13/04/2022 19:13

Wow.

Please leave him.

It doesn’t matter what he thinks. You do not need his permission to end the relationship.

He will never make you happy, never be faithful to you, never respect you, never truly love you. You and your child deserve much better OP but you will not find a better life while still tied to this loser.

Get rid of him.

unk1234 · 13/04/2022 19:26

@FeckTheMagicDragon

Train=Reason Do you want this as an example to your child on how women should be treated?
I'm not with him anymore as of 2 weeks ago, but just wanted to see other peoples views on this as he now thinks we are even I kept child and he cheated when they are completely different things, I also didn't ask him to stay if he didn't want child
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FeckTheMagicDragon · 13/04/2022 22:40

I’m so glad you are not with him anymore. And it’s your body, your choice. If he didn’t want children then had a choice of wearing a condom or getting a vasectomy. After that he had NO right to tell you what to do with your body. It’s a pathetic excuse to put the blame for his actions on you.

caringcarer · 13/04/2022 22:46

Leaving him was best thing you ever did. Now you and your child will have a chance of finding a partner who truly loves you and makes you feel special. Not all men cheat. Look for one that doesn't.

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