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Firsttimemum101101 · 12/03/2022 17:24

I need some advice. I'm a first time mum who had an extremely controlling boyfriend. I never took any time for myself and recently went out for dinner and a few drinks and ended up being spiked. I left my phone at home because I only thought I'd be an hour and was just taking time for myself. I couldn't get a hold of anyone for the next day besides my dads phone which I knew off by heart. I was so not with it I said I was going to hospital but never did as I couldn't even make it off the bathroom floor. I arrived home when I somehow got my barings and have had various people explain what happened. I however have very little to no memory, the police are involved and he has now left me and completely doesn't believe me, he also entirely blames me for what happened. I only was taking one evening for myself and it completely backfired. Am I in the wrong?

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redchicken · 12/03/2022 19:01

You are 100% NOT in the wrong. You are a victim of a crime

Ginger1982 · 12/03/2022 19:12

You are not in the wrong but take this as a blessing that you've split up and find someone who isn't controlling.

Firsttimemum101101 · 13/03/2022 22:12

@redchicken

You are 100% NOT in the wrong. You are a victim of a crime
I lied about what happened initially because I was just so embarrassed and he's kicked me out the house and everything I'm now homeless with no job - luckily I think his family are offering for me to live there
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Firsttimemum101101 · 13/03/2022 22:15

@Ginger1982

You are not in the wrong but take this as a blessing that you've split up and find someone who isn't controlling.
I returned home the next day ovviously with no recollection and therefore missed his sisters birthday, everyone knows I would never miss her birthday or leave my son with family members without good reason. I feel like I'm in the wrong
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Ginger1982 · 14/03/2022 19:01

So have you split up or not?

nancybotwinbloom · 14/03/2022 19:14

What did you say had happened? Why did you lie?

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