Partners divorce

[BabyMoi]

My boyfriends ex-wife is apparently going to try and bring my assets and wage into their divorce and claim that we are co-habiting, we aren’t. I have only stayed overnight about 7 times in the last 9 months.

Realistically how easy would it be for her to bring me into question even though it’s not the case, and then how much would I have to share to prove that I’m not? We both pay our own rents/bills etc and there is no cross over of finances at all between us.

Also I only earn about £2k a month, have aprox £9k worth of debt and no real assets so how much would it affect things anyway other than just long out the process?

If you never pay any money into his account to pay bills and you don't live there then I can't see how it's an issue. You have not merged finances therefore his affairs are not your responsibility.

But I would caution against moving any further forward with this relationship until he's sorted himself out. Just don't get dragged in. The stress isn't worth it.

Were you the OW? Would explain why she's keen to drag you in if so (not saying that's morally right or even legally possible)

It would not be possible for her to get at your assets in the divorce, even if you lived together she would not be able to garnish your wages-she is not divorcing you. This sounds awfully dramatic for a new relationship.