My sons father insists on calling him by a different name.
He refers to him by that name when telling people he has a son and when he sends child Maintenence. Any correspondence to me also comes with this name. He even forced me to do a dna test because I wouldn't let him choose the name and when I went to the test center he put down our sons details under a completely different name (first and last name)
By the way he is an absent father and is absent because there's a non molestation order in place. He hasn't made any attempts to go through a contact centre or filled out child arrangement forms.
He wasn't around during pregnancy due to pushing me whilst I was pregnant.
He was there for the birth. I chose the names during pregnancy and was willing to let him choose a middle name and we double barrel the surname and he didn't want that but now he won't call him by his real name.
The name is also a Muslim name. None of us are Muslim. I'm Christian and he's agnostic.
How would you feel about this?