My ex and I split in May 2021 and i left the house. I left because i was pushed away i spoke about how i was feeling and nothing changed so i left. She has 2 children 12 and 17 not mine that i looked after for 8 years and all i became was a cash cow. We both equally own the house but i spent alot of money on an extention and i bought all the white goods and furniture, i bought her a shop and bought a car that she uses and still uses. After i left there were a few cosmetic things to do and then we could sell. Now everytime i ask where we are at there is another delay. We need new taps before we can sell, the bathroom floor needs doing before we can sell etc etc. Ive offered to help her with a deposit to find a rental. I am allowing her to pay me each month so she can drive the car in my name and finance in my name and still all my offers are rejected to help and i am no fed up of living in limbo. i need my equity out of the house to move on as im stuck. She has been funny with me over furniture as i asked what she wanted to buy and she was expecting me to give her what she wanted. So ive given so much and offered so much that now ive had enough, I cant buy her out and she cant buy me out as i cant afford it and as the shop i bought her isnt doing very well she has no spare money. She is paying the mortgage now before i was paying all of it. After been nice for so long and getting another delay text on why we still cant put the house up for sale. Ive given her 2 weeks to put it up for sale or i will apply for a court order for the sale, I wll take my car back and all my furniture that I own. Now i feel guilty for sending the message but what am i supposed to do when been nice doesnt work, i am just been messed about. I need my cash out of the house, i think 8 months with all my offers is long enough.......thoughts please?