Hello
The kids dad lady has recently beat him up. He filmed it. Called police. Had her arrested. Her bail condition was she came no where near him for last 3 weeks. During these 3 weeks he explained the situation to our children, he turned up at my door numerous times looking for sympathy. He signed himself off work. He looked to be upset with situation. I told him I wouldn’t want her around our children. He assured me he could not be with her again. Our children were out on a child protection register in light of her actions. She went to court and had her bail conditions lifted. She is pleading not guilty case continues . I’m assuming now he may retract his statement. She moved back in.
He rocked up yesterday to take our children for Xmas as agreed and said she’s home. I enquired if my children are safe. He looked like I had 2 heads asking such a question. He is now telling me ‘it is what it is.’ And he said to the kids they must be nice with her and ‘get over it’.
I feel sick for my kids having to be around this lady and this situation in general.
Any advice, reassurance, would be greatly appreciated.