The ex has a pension of 110K, which is a standard one, not defined benefit or anything of that sort. You can tell how little I know about this. We were going to do a pension evaluation with an actuary to equalise pension in retirement but now my solicitor says there's no point as it's not a big pension. I'm confused about this, as it was her who initially proposed the pension report. And on this board I always read that a pension report is a must.
For context, both of us are mid to late 40s, him earning 100+ salary and me 20k. I have no pension of my own (self employed)