If you've read my boring rants before now you will know that my DD1 doesn't see her dad and hasn't since he left almost 3 years ago. She's 10 now.
EXH was found to be having an affair and left the family for OW. My Dd hasn't seen her Dad since then despite my best efforts and intervention by counsellors, well-being services, school and family. She won't budge.
EXH has blamed me all along and has now contacted my solicitor and alleged that I have brainwashed DD1. He has reports from the services above saying I've tried my best and I've done a lot of hard work to help their relationship but DD1 won't see him until she's ready. His family have also written statements against me supporting what he is saying. He is saying I say the right thing to the right people but manipulate our daughters.
I'm devastated. I had a great relationship with his family and I feel completely stabbed in the back and that my efforts over the last few years have been for nothing. It's been really hard to deal with.
Luckily I save every piece of proof of trying to encourage a bond between both DD's and their dad so I have that luckily but it's just complete bullshit that I don't need on top of everything else. I don't have the energy to deal with this.