I posted another thread recently but tonight the relationship has officially ended. I brought it up, following a discussion Sunday/Monday. He said lockdown was hard but he assumed once we got the house (more space), the dog and got engaged that things would improve. I said those things are nice but to improve things then conversations need to be had, and asked why he hadn't voiced concerns sooner. He said he didn't know.
Typically he will keep the lovely house (will buy me out) and the lovely dog (I'm in pieces over losing the dog :( ) I'll keep the cats. I'm gutted, I thought I was safe, secure and building a lovely home together. I knew there were problems but not what I would have considered deal breakers. I think I feel quite numb right now.