Separating

[tinytinker93]

Me and my partner lost are child to social services due to my health and one if our children passed away years ago and we barely made it through that and I've been thinking about how he's given up his life to care for me and I think it's better if we went our separate ways so he can give live his life without worrying about me etc, the problem is I feel like a monster because he's given up his life to care for me and I honestly don't know what to do, we don't really talk and when we do it's arguing, any advice would be great

It sounds like you have been through a lot. Have you had any support from your GP or counselling?

We are currently waiting therapy but the time scale for having an sessions in 19+ weeks

It sounds like you have both been through an awful lot. Rather than jumping into separating, would some sort of marriage guidance and counselling help as a first step?