I saw a solicitor today who has strongly advised me not to sell house until I find a job as need to being financially secure for kids and be able to get a mortgage. But STBX is putting the pressure on saying he wants to sell so he can get on with his life. He is trying to get me to get a buy to let mortgage as apparently I won’t need a job. But how straight forward is it? Would me and kids be able to live in it!