I have posted a discussed with a couple of people the situation below I have copy and pasted the original discussion however anyone else have any input on this? I was thinking of writing a letter to my ex to stating how I feel but I don’t want to come off as emotional and that’s hard to do not do and the position he has left our child in etc no closure or anything after I divorced him - should I just leave it as it is? ie I have never stopped a relationship or used child as divorce pawn I have never stood in way in a relationship with his child but read below for a more what’s going on please. I’m having a bad day I’m alone today as my child is at her friends on a play date and just thinking ... I don’t speak to anyone regarding this , I would appreciate people’s wisdom and advice / chat
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I have looked at a few similar posts but not exactly related to my situation, so I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice / general chat.
I have been accused of being abusive by my ex (no police involvement / no record / nothing related to abuse or even anything) however ex and I separated and I filed for divorce we have a child and as soon as we separated my ex corrected me from me saying ‘our child’ to just ‘your child’ which I found odd...since then a few months on not a word - ex won’t discuss anything about child or even ask how child doing / no care shown whatsoever he won’t even say the child’s name hardly or discuss - so I’m a single parent just doing what I’ve always done been there unconditionally for my child and taking care of them. However if my ex truly thought I was abusive why leave the child to me and not show any care for them?
Would people find this a poor excuse if someone randomly heard this?
I feel like ex has done this on purpose.
Any advice or anyone been through a similar situation? ❤️
Appreciated any advice thank you