My ex husband refuses to have anything to do with our child like an abrupt cut off since separation months ago and started saying ‘your child’ and not ‘our child’ and then said he couldn’t have a relationship with child because of me! Excuse me of abuse! So if I’m abusive why leave the child with me? He refuses to even show love or care and won’t utter a word about child. I’ve give up now I’ve tried my best but I’m not begging him to be involved if he doesn’t want to see our child - it’s like he doesn’t love child anymore? I don’t know. I have looked through some posts quite similar but not exactly same to mine , I guess I’m just reaching out for some opinions and to talk just in general.
I’m an amazing mum in the sense I do all the care giving anyway nothing has changed in that respect but I think the lack of regard / care from my ex husband is very damaging x