Hi there
I’m in need of a divorce lawyer in or near Bristol for some advice. A very good one who can help with a fairly complex financial arrangement (company ownerships, properties related to the company).
Also, we are in the early stages of discussing childcare. DH says he will do 50:50 but I believe this to be wholly unrealistic with his job. He is also very unreliable and at the moment I basically have to remind him of any arrangements he is involved in. Obviously I won’t be doing that once we have separated.
However, I also need to get a new job (we work together at the moment, just to add more complexity into the mix!) and I need to know what kind of availability I have. I’m really wary about committing to a certain work pattern (ie 3 long days on the days when DH has his 50%) as experience tells me his arrangements will soon unravel and he will be unreliable. Not really sure what my question is except maybe some advice on how to be clear the safety net won’t be there and once has has committed he needs to do what he said. I just worry the kids will suffer as he forgets/is late/whatever and would rather he were realistic now and committed to eg one night on the week.