Bit of background- Wife wants to separate but is still living in same house. I am also female.
One of many arguements, Bought new tooth brush for DD. Wife me Told not to give her it as dd has just started using other toothbrush which the bristles look like they need replacing. I said well she might like using this one. Told again not to give her it. Was told I was creating an argument yet again. Said I wasn't the one arguing and that I had only bought new toothbrush.
Was told I am creating an issue/arguement and instead of just saying 'OK' I am the one eith the issue.
Went upstairs said if dd doesn't use other toothbrush then she can use this new one.
Told to duck off. Told to move out. I told her she wants to split she can leave.
She then recounted the arguement and it was totally different to what I had actually said. She is making me question myself.
Told her I don't like where this is going and I am starting to feel uncomfortable with this all.
She just blames me for everything has taken money out of our joint savings and had organised for her salary to go into her own account.
Feel like this has become abbusive now - I don't know what to do. I only work part time as we had agreed I would be homemaker. I have no money for a solicitor etc.