Hi - I’ve managed to get myself into a really difficult situation. I am pregnant and have a toddler, the relationship has never been great but it’s becoming intolerable. I think I have to leave because it’s having a negative impact on my health in every way and it’s not a great environment for children to be in. Obviously being pregnant makes things so much more difficult! We live in his flat. I don’t have a job as I became a SAHM when I had my child. I do have some assets and I know it would be a struggle but I have reached the point that I think anything would be better than this. I guess I am worried about whether it’s ok for me to just leave and sort out details later, where I would have to go is far away from where I currently live (a couple of hours) and so would that go against me at a later date in terms of custody? I don’t think he will be able to have any kind of conversation about the realities of this until I’ve actually gone. Any help or advice really appreciated because I feel so trapped and miserable.