Inheritance confusion

[Joanna000603]

My STBXH keeps moving the goal posts. He made me a financial offer today. This was on track to what I had in mind. Then he calls to say that he wants to go to court instead, which he previously said he wanted to avoid.
He told me that everything he owns is inherited and I will come away with virtually nothing.
We both have solicitors. He says that mines not doing a very good job.
I’ve gone from feeling good that we’re getting somewhere to feeling anxious.

The bad mouthing your solicitor is common and just another way of abusing you by unnerving you, undermining your support and making you doubt yourself and your decisions. Mine ex did it all the way through! Exhausting and unnecessary. Keep going Op! Xx

Tell him that all communications between you must be via your solicitors. He sounds as if he is running scared to me.

Thank you all. He did scare me but I’m feeling better, after your supportive posts and an appointment with my solicitor. My therapist said that it’s a cycle of manipulative behaviour, then being apologetic, love bombing etc Then it starts all over again!!