Hi, after some advice please. Currently going through a divorce following the discovery of another affair. We moved away from friends/family after a previous affair for a fresh start and have since had children. Discovered husband had another affair when our youngest was just a baby, so marriage is over and I’m devastated husband could do it again with a young family to think of now! 😞 I’ve been stuck in marital home during lockdown away from my family. STBX is insisting I should move out even though I have no family nearby (he does). I work part time around childcare, so cannot afford to rent until divorce is settled which could be months away. My only option is to therefore move back to where we are both from (approx 1 & 1/2 hours away) where I can stay with family until divorce/financial settlement is reached. STBX says I cannot take children, so I’m now trapped here, as will obviously not leave without them! STBX has family and many friends there, so does have option of accommodation there too and I will always ensure Children have regular contact. I appreciate the distance is an issue, but will do anything to aid that issue i.e. travelling and more access in holidays etc, but if I cannot afford to live in current area and have no family to stay with here, what else can I do?! I feel so trapped. Property is much cheaper in our old location, so when settlement is reached it’ll be cheaper to rent/buy there. I do think it’s important for both parents to be involved in children’s upbringing, so I’m having a real battle with this and just wondered what people would do in my shoes/have done in similar situation?