DH and I agreed to a trial separation 2 months ago of 4 weeks. He has moved in with his parents. Since the initial 4 weeks, there have been on and off talks, but I became upset when he kept storming out of the house when things didn't go his way. I've since told him that talks should take place in a neutral space, not in the house when he has the luxury of walking out and I don't.
After a positive talk one evening and a takeaway, I have since suggested a meal out to discuss things and he said yes, but that he couldn't on the particular evening I mentioned. I've since discovered that he went to play golf. He hasn't suggested an alternative day/time to meet and discuss things, almost 2 weeks later. This I think, is because he's busy- on his free nights he's either working, playing football, playing golf, or in a friends garden/beer garden.
The primary reason we are going through all of this is his failure to prioritise us as a couple or engage in the mechanics and planning that goes with family life.
I don't feel strong enough to officially end things, but it looks like I'm going to have to. I genuinely thought he would sit up straight and realise what he's losing, but he hasn't. Just looking for a bit of moral support before I take the next step?