Hello! You may have read my previous posts about my jackass of a stbxh being difficult but I just wanted your advice on the recent situation. We have 2 DD's together and my eldest (9) has effectively disowned her dad and won't have anything to do with him.
She's struggled throughout the separation despite us trying to convince her to see her dad which we know is really important. She recently had a mental health crisis at school and the school and I worked together to get help from the GP, CAMHS and private counselling. She's doing better but when I told my ex about it to keep him in the loop with our girls he accused me of making it up. Even when I showed him the camhs paperwork we'd completed he said I'd printed it off of the internet and it was fake.
The root of this is due to the ow he left us for being a crazy loon and turning up at my house, contacting me, sending takeaways etc. She's always denied it and he's always believed her and said I'm making it up. The police are involved and solicitors have copies of the police paperwork.
I digress. My question is that given that he won't believe anything I say even if it slapped him in the face am I within my rights just to keep things to myself about the girls unless it's serious or to do with the days he has DD2? I don't want to purposely hold back information or alienate him but when I do try to involve him he accuses me of lying which is starting to affect my self esteem. My friends irl tell me to block all information from him but obviously they're on my side but I want to do what it best for our girls.
Thanks for reading.