Hi,
I have posted a couple of times about the financial settlement proposals that stbxh has made and not wanting pensions or other property included.
My solicitor spoke to his and told her that we want an pensions actuary involved as there are 2 db schemes and due to the value.
As a result ex has now refused to continue with mediation and has informed me that he is taking me to court and that he is moving back into the family home that I am currently sharing with our child who is 8 as he can’t afford to continue to rent due to solicitors, actuary & court costs and this is the only way he can finance it.
Does anyone have any thoughts what I can do to make this work. I am massively concerned how this is going to effect our child’s mental health or any ideas if I can stop this happening.
Also does anyone know what happens with child maintenance once we are sharing a house again (we have agreed that I would have our child 5 nights and ex would have 2 nights per week)