Seeking a divorce buddy

[123Penny]

So for whatever reason I've found myself on the receiving end of a husband that wants a divorce. I'm not going to lie, I'm broken, scared, confused and very lonely but I guess I'm not alone. If you're in a similar position and we can share practical advice then that's surely a good thing.

Never imagined I'd be writing a message like this but with two darling children and a Mum with Alzheimer's I need to talk to someone can give me advice from their own experience. although I've got fantastic friends, they've not been divorced.

Please help.

Please feel free to message me. I'm half way through my divorce.

ps... it must feel like the worst place right now, but I promise you, it will get better.

That's so kind. Do you mean message you directly? I'm new to MN and not sure how to message directly.

I'm 10 months on from my husband leaving if you want another buddy 🙂

Would also recommend how to heal a broken heart by Rosie green. Just read it and it helped.

I'm also going through a divorce. I never thought I'd be in this position either...but here I am. I've been heartbroken, angry, shocked by ex's behaviour to absolutely confused and had my eyes opened to who this person I loved actually is.. I'm here if you want to speak to anyone.
It's an absolute horrendous situation I know that much.

I've name changed as I want to keep this separate from all of the other threads I'm on.
I'm in the same position after 20 years of marriage.
Not so darling H decided he wanted a divorce & as far as I know no other person involved.
He's changed so much in the last 6 or so years & definitely isn't the man I married.
It kind of feels surreal like it's all happened before or like I'm in a dream but a dream were I know what's going to happen.
I go through stages of I couldn't careless to wanting to smash his face in to sometimes weeping about it all.
I don't want to be with him, certainly not the person he is now but it's sad because it's like the person he was has died.
I kind of feel like I'm in mourning.

Sorry that you guys (hope you don't mind me tagging you) are having to all go through the same
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