Hello,
I am desperate for help as I am all alone in my situation :(
We have just agreed on divorcing (after quite some time) and my husband wants to put me on the housing register. Is that okay to do so? Months ago I registered my rights to the matrimonial house we're living in. Short info: mortgage and deeds are on his name only (of course, that was easier and faster for him he said); he's been working (nights), I've been a housewife + mum (2 girls: 1 in primary school + 1 in secondary); I am foreign and have got the right to remain;... I've got no money, no family or friends in the country, no one to ask help from. (In-laws are hours away, too. I don't know how they'll react for the news) I've been isolated for 15 years - so I am worried about my chances to get a job, esp. in current world; even though I am well educated. I can't afford a family laywer but I need help, advice - I wouldn't like to be tricked...
I am scared and wouldn't like to get into trouble in any way. I thought we'd file for a divorce and I can stay in the house till the end of it - then we need to sort out whatever is agreed on during the process / or the court would say... (I don't want him alone to decide about me, and what/how I can get)
He keeps saying I need to remove my registered right on the house so he can sell it - but that is exactly the point, isn't it? Generally, I think he tries to be clever and thinks for himself mainly, but I also need to start over a whole life with my girls - as we agree on that part.
What do I do? Please, could someone give me any advice? What are my chances? Am I eligible for free legal advice? (it is not clear for me, we are not receiving benefits...)