So my husband has moved in with his mum as he no longer can cope with my 14 year old daughter! He brought her up since she was 2years old. She's just been diagnosed with autism (he don't believe this) and is on medication for schizophrenia! She's doing well at school and is very loving but can be difficult...things have to run the way it was planned smells make her have a melt down she can be Violet and rude when she's struggling. All things I can cope with..my son has autism to but was diagnosed age 6 he's now 13 and is a joy...my husband also never believed he had issues till now after me fighting for him to be in the right school! Me and my husband have a 16 month old son together. My husband says he loves me but hates my daughter he wants us to live separate till she moves out then he will come "home" I will not have this! Husband or not my children will not feel unloved like that. I'm finding it so hard the man I love who brought up my children with me now cuts them of like they nothing! Has his son twice a week and is a brilliant dad to him but my others can see this he thinks they don't care or miss him. I feel I've lost some love for him! My mother in law is the same she took my sons (13year old) blanket away (he has a blanket as a comfort) she told him he's to old for this and he needs to grow up! I baby him by still running his bath and getting him dressed! He's got autism and goes to a special needs school...he needs help in lots of things but because he's intelligent they feel he can do things he can't or struggles with. My husband tells me im a weak mum that lets them get away with to much and my Parenting is all wrong yet all the professionals involved tell me how amazing I am! I'm just so confused do I divorce him and move on with my life? He tells me no other man will want me with "mental" kids