I wonder if anyone can help. My divorce is horrible and drawn out and I thought we had gotten close to agreeing a settlement. My ex earns a massive salary but cannot manage money, is up to his eyeballs in credit cards and incredibly incompetent in managing his personal affairs despite being a lawyer!
Now my stbxh wants to move the goal posts as he just realised he will have to pay capital gains tax once we sell the house as he’s been living out of the marital home for 3 years, and he is expecting me to make up the difference by doubling what he takes from the sale of the house. This will mean I cannot afford to by the modest home I was hoping for - he was prepared to settle for a fee but he suddenly wants to double it. I earn a salary 1/5 of his (though I work full time) and have the kids 12/14 nights.