Hurting after ex has moved on so quickly

[shuz1980]

Went round to ex's today and found my old drawers full of woman's clothes and lingerie. 12 years we were together, 3 children and 5 years in that home. 12 weeks ive been gone. I left because it wasn't a happy or healthy relationship. I don't want him back but it just hurts how quick he's moved on! You don't move someone in after 12 weeks. Makes me think he was seeing her before i left. Im hurting so much. I feel jealous, i feel betrayed, i feel heart broken.

They could be his, OP?

@cindylouwhosplaits Think it would be less painful if they were. But much to small for ex to fit into.

Sorry Op that's not good

I do wonder what you were doing going through his drawers though?

@Mangofandangoo My children like to play treasure hunts where we hide things around the house and give clues to find them. I thought my old drawers were empty and went to hide some 'treasure' in there. That's why i think it hurts so much. It was so unexpected.

Did he know you were going through the drawers? Is it still your house if you’ve moved out?