I would like some advice pls
Me and my husband having bickering arguments cause he makes petty lies about stuff i.e who his with, who he speaks to. Later on i always find out and i errupt
He said he doesnt tell me as he knows id cause an argument, i have always said be honest with me no matter what i may not like something but i wouldnt never be angry if your honest the 1st time.
This time hes lied again about talking to someone. Girl mate again until i found convos on his phone about her getting him trainers as she work in JD and hes been going outside her house few times when hes ordered things. The point is why does he keep telling me these things are from his mate whos a guy mate. He even says he will collect at stupid times like 10pm 11pm
Just annoying. He reckons im overreacting i believed i was till now like always i let him get away with the petty lies but now i feel like i cant even trust him.
When he gets dressed and ready i think hes up to something, when hes on his phone texting i think its another women. All cause of the petty lies from the very start.
Its so so so mentally draining for me i keep telling myself i wish i never felt this way i wish i could trust him. Everytime i do theres another petty lie. My love is so deep for him that i made him my world and i feel betrayed. I wish i never felt like im possessive. I trusted him always blindly
I feel like enough is enough now.
Do you think separating may help him see im talking business. I dont want to loose hope on our marriage but can liars change and can trust be built again or is this it.