So far this year ex-h has...

[NoEffingWay]

Separated in Jan, divorced by June.

Ex-h has threatened;

To take my belongings to the tip if I didn't collect it in an hour.
To take me to court for a parenting plan despite me never having always worked with him to ensure DS is looked after and has the agreed contact hours with me.
To report me to the police for dropping DS to his at the agreed time because he was afraid DS had been 'in contact with a covid-19 patient' (DS fine and in God health at all times).

I am a decent person, a good parent and he has agreed we needed to divorce and yet still sends me horrible texts and emails at all times of the day and night.

Remind me why I ever married him?! I think I must have been blind and stupid!

Look on the bright side. You'll be going into 2021 as the first bright new year you're no longer married to a bad decision!

Sorry for the typos-have always worked with ex-h not never!
And ds is good health not God health. .

He's basically bitter you wouldn't put up with his shit anymore and walked away;he's now trying to punish you using your child.Let him threaten;you have nothing to hide.He's just being a gigantic 🔔🔚

Oh gosh! At least you’re not married to him.
Make sure you tell him to only message you concerning ds. Anything off key he can pay a solicitor to send a letter.

I like to respond to these messages with emojis.

As pp said he is still angry you left and is trying to make you miserable. Rise above it you don't have to deal with his shit anymore.

Sounds a bit like my ex. Started small and in the end tried to get an injunction against me! As well as making false allegations to the police. Make sure you keep all the messages and emails in case you need them as evidence later.

They can't stand not being in control.

Don't bother replying to his messages unless it's something necessary about your DS.

Got the OW to report me to the police
Got the OW to report our daughter to the police
Driven past our daughter
Told other daughter he chose OW child over her
Threatened to stop maintenance
Accused me of emotional abuse of the children
Stopped all contact with the children
Uses his solicitor to continue the abuse
Get me thrown out of the marital home and take the children
Threats of court for contact, even though he chose to stop

It’s so hard, I really feel for you. I’m hoping 2021 is better